Funny Thing About Love

I have loved and lost once in my life and I thought because that love moved on that I was all but forgotten. A very insignificant person and experience in his life. It was a tough emotion to live with because we were first loves and high school sweet hearts. For most people that's the most important Love of your life.Years passed and he came back and I learned that I was never far from his mind. I was actually in the for front and his feelings hadn't changed.

Still years passed and another re-entered. I was never in love with him but he was with me and he to informed me that I was always at the for front of his mind and the feelings never changed. In that instants I learned a very valuable lesson about Love.

Funny thing Love, once you are in it, it gets deep within your heart. With every passing year it gets deeper and deeper. No matter if you are together or apart the Love of that persons sticks with you and there is nothing you can do about. It never goes away if it is genuine true love. That person is never far from your mind.

So never fear loves who have lost because of the mistakes your love made. You were important to that lost love. More important than you will ever know because though you both may have moved on with your lives you pop up in their lives more times than they would ever be willing to admit. When you love someone so deeply and make mistakes that cause you to lose it. It sticks with you. You feel guilty and you feel remorse for losing the greatest thing in your life. It is true what they say, "You don't know what you've got till it's gone." Or as my aunt use to say, "You're gonna miss me when I'm gone!"

Take comfort in that my friends who have experienced heart ache. Let it bring you solace. You weren't forgotten. They will forever be tortured by the continuous thoughts of you. They screwed up and just didn't have the guts to come back and ask for forgiveness. Feel grateful within yourself that you experience that great love and have the great memories. Some people aren't so lucky! Send them peace from your heart and allow yourself to feel the same. If you were important enough in someones life to be loved you are most definitely important enough to remembered.