You are a Hero!

When bad things happen in your life, the people around you have a reaction. In a perfect world everyone would be supportive and tell you how awesome you are for dealing with the problem in such a graceful and respectful manner. However, in the real world the people closet to you will tell you in many creative and colorful ways that you are an idiot for putting up with whatever it is and they certainly would never put up with it because they are so much more stronger and wiser than you.

Well, here is the truth friends! If you can look a situation with both eyes open. Look at what is going on not only from your own perspective but also from the perspective of the other people involved. If you can have empathy for the other person and compassion even though they may be the one at fault. Finally, if you can find it within yourself to not be selfish and to be forgiving and to put your heart and soul into the fight until you feel like you can't fight anymore because you have done all you could. You my friend are a Hero!

Yes, a hero! The reason the judgmental judge is simply because they themselves are to self centered and narrow minded to grasp the concept of what you are doing and feeling inside. You understand and see that you aren't an idiot who is allowing someone to screw you over. You aren't weak because you are smart enough to listen to yourself and decide for yourself when its time to say enough. Work on your time not someone else's.

You are special! You are loved! Evolved and Blessed! You know that no matter what you will do what's right even though there may be some heartache involved. You aren't afraid to jump into the fire. All your haters can't say the same. So stand proud! You are doing a great thing and while you in your peaceful evolved state will live out the rest of your life happy to be you, those who have done you wrong and have judged you will be the ones who really end up suffering in the end. It's the law of the universe. Karma is a very powerful thing. You can't run from it. You can't hide from it. It will find you! Be grateful that you were the good one in your scenario. You will be rewarded for your goodness. And they will be rewarded for their misdeeds in karma. You will be happy my friends. Trust in your inner voice and your goodness. Remind yourself daily that you are blessed and worthy person of all the love and joy in the world. It's coming your way. Be prepared to except it.

Tell me your stories of being mistreated and how you handled it. I believe we all gain strength and knowledge from each others stories.